People With AIDS Coalition of Utah
People volunteer for wide variety of reasons, especially wanting to help others. But it's also OK to want some benefits for yourself from volunteering.
Some people are uncomfortable with the notion that a volunteer "benefits" from doing volunteer work. There is a long tradition of seeing volunteering as a form of charity, based on altruism and selflessness. The best volunteering does involve the desire to serve others, but this does not exclude other motivations, as well.
Instead of considering volunteering as something you do for people who are not as fortunate as yourself, begin to think of it as an exchange.
Consider that most people find themselves in need at some point in their lives. So today you may be the person with the ability to help, but tomorrow you may be the recipient of someone else's volunteer effort. Even now you might be on both sides of the service cycle: maybe you are a tutor for someone who can't read, while last month the volunteer ambulance corps rushed you to the emergency room. Volunteering also includes "self-help." So if you are active in your neighborhood crime watch, your home is protected while you protect your neighbors' homes, too. Adding your effort to the work of others makes everyone's lives better.
Think about how much you receive when you give and consider why you want to volunteer. You may have several different reasons. Here are just a few of the many possible motivations identified by other volunteers:
· to feel needed
· to share a skill
· to get to know a community
· to demonstrate commitment to a cause/belief
· to gain leadership skills
· to act out a fantasy
· to do your civic duty
· because of pressure from a friend or relative
· satisfaction from accomplishment
· to keep busy
· for recognition
· to repay a debt
· to donate your professional skills
· because there is no one else to do it
· to have an impact
· to learn something new
· for freedom of schedule
· to help a friend or relative
· for escape
· to become an "insider"
· to be challenged
· to be a watchdog
· to feel proud
· to make new friends
· to explore a career
· to help someone
· as therapy
· to do something different from your job
· for fun!
· for religious reasons
· to earn academic credit
· to keep skills alive
· because an agency is geographically close
· to have an excuse to do what you love
· to be able to criticize
· to assure progress
· to feel good
· to be part of a team
· to gain status
· because you were asked
· to test yourself
· to build your resume
· to be an agent of change
· because of personal experience with the problem, illness, or cause
· to stand up and be counted
You will probably have some special reasons of your own. Remember that the motivations you have to select the place to offer your services may not be the reasons why you stay. Once you're on the volunteer job, you will continue to serve as long as you feel that your efforts are accomplishing something, that your talents are appreciated, and that you make a difference. And if you also like the people with whom you work, so much the better!
As long as you are truly serving through your volunteer work, isn't it wonderful that such an exchange occurs? In fact, it tends to strengthen your commitment to volunteering when you can see the benefits to both the recipient of your efforts and to yourself. And it is much more comfortable than "charity" because it upholds the self-esteem of those with whom you volunteer.
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